For my birthday last year, I wrote a post about 21 people I admire. This year, I wanted to be reflective yet again, because if your early twenties aren’t for moderately pretentious posts about how unique your perspective is, what’s the point?
21 was a big year: I presented research for the first time (and got paid for it!), started my senior year, began working on a year-long independent research project, applied and got into (!!!) graduate school, presented my independent research project, graduated from college, moved back to Virginia, and had a lot of other important moments along the way. So, I’d like to take some time to reflect on just 22 of these moments from the past year, so please bare with my sentimentality and nostalgia (for things happening no more than 366 days ago). I’m going to attempt a semi-chronological order, but also my memory is terrible, so it might end up being just a mish-mash of memories.
- (Technically this happened before I even turned 21, but it’s fine.) My puppies (read: 12-year-old fully grown adult dogs) came to live with me! We discovered a lot of new things, like they, like me, are not big fans of the South Carolina heat, and they love car rides!
- My 21st birthday. All of my siblings, including my then-future brother-in-law came to Blacksburg to celebrate! We had a really great weekend and it was nice to spend time all together 🙂 I also got to see all of my best friends from elementary school and go to the 1989 tour stop in DC, which was a good show regardless of personal opinions on the star.
- SURF. Last summer was both the first time I was paid to do research and my first experience presenting my results at an (albeit small) poster session. It was a really good experience to work so closely with my advisor before embarking on my bachelor’s essay thesis, and it was great practice for conferences I will attend in the future!
- Family Cruise. In August, my mom, brother, sister, aunt and I went on a cruise to celebrate my birthday/family vacation, which was super fun and relaxing just before the start of senior year!
- Landmark Festival. In early September, two of my best friends and I went to a small music festival in DC, where I saw George Ezra perform. I’m kind of nervous around big crowds, so this was a really good first festival experience for me! Also, George Ezra is really talented and I’m really glad I got to see him in concert!
- Nicole’s Wedding. My most brunette sister got married and had the shortest ceremony and most fun reception of any wedding that I’ve ever been to, and I got a new brother out of the deal! All around a very special and super great weekend 🙂 #nicoalson
- Disney World. This needs very little explanation, but I haven’t been to Disney World since I was teeny, and there was a suuuper good deal through my school’s student activities association and it was literally the best ever. I loved it so much I’m planning another trip in August!
- Article about summer research published in CofC Magazine. My SURF project was one of five selected for a feature in our school’s online and in-print magazine, which was pretty exciting! My aunt gave me a really beautiful frame with the cover and article as a graduation gift, and I can’t wait to put it up in our new condo!
- Finally got to see Zoe perform. Zoe and I have been best friends since elementary school (I’d say 5th grade, but she really didn’t like me until 6th haha) and yet, until our last year of college, I had never seen her perform at JMU. (I did see her perform the summer before the year started, but her choir actually came to Charleston, so it was a happy coincidence). In the fall semester, I got to see Zoe in an opera she was a part of, and she was the best person on the stage (in my totally unbiased opinion).
- Christmas. I just love everything about Christmas, so this will make it on a list of favorites every year, probably for the rest of my life. Only one Christmas in my history has a tarnished reputation, but it certainly wasn’t this year. This was Nicole and Dane’s first Christmas as a married couple, so they hosted the holiday at their apartment in Raleigh. Our traditions stayed the same, just in a new location, and it was really nice to see our expanded family this time around. Next year, Christina and I are hosting at our place in Blacksburg, fingers crossed.
- In January, I was accepted into my first choice graduate program, with the Human Development department at Virginia Tech. Not only was this great news, but it came super early, so I didn’t spend the last semester of senior year freaking out about the future!
- Sister cruise. Christina and I were given a cruise ticket as a Christmas present, and we had a really nice spring break as a result. Not only was it fun in the sun, but knowing we can live in a 10×10 room for four days without murdering each other is a great sign for our next few years sharing a 3-bedroom condo 🙂 plus, we closed out the week in Charleston with a belated celebration of my mom’s birthday, joined by our other siblings. A spring break for the books, for sure.
- This isn’t a happy memory, but it was an important one. Nikki died in April and it was really hard for all of us, especially Godiva. I still think about her all the time, but it’s not quite as terribly heartbreaking and we’ve all gotten to the loss-adjustment phase. More than any of us, Godiva is living her best life after Nikki, so that’s a bright side.
- Zoe’s senior recital. In April, Zoe gave her senior recital as a requirement for her music major. I spent the weekend between Blacksburg and JMU, because Taylor (who I really have been best friends with since the 5th grade) and I got to see her performance together! The three of us have been so busy since coming to college that time we all spend together is rare, but it makes the moments that much more cherished. I also got to see her farewell a capella concert a few weeks later!
- Just before the end of the school year, I presented my Bachelor’s Essay research at a school-sponsored poster session, at which I also received departmental honors in Psychology. That event was really great for a number of reasons, but mostly because it was so satisfying to see all of my work, not just from this year but the past four, recognized. To see professors and community members alike engage in my research was really, really rewarding, and made me that much more excited to continue research at the graduate level.
- A Charleston Affair. The weekend before graduation, our school hosts a giant party for alumni and graduating students. While I’m not sure the food/DJ were worth the $60 price tag, having one last night to see all of my friends who were all in the process of moving out and leaving for who-knows-how-long, was really special. I’m really glad that I finally took pictures with some friends I’ve known for four years, and that I now have #freshmanvssenioryear photos with my best friends to hang on my wall in Blacksburg.
- Graduation weekend was the best. Everyone came into town and we had parties and ate great food and laughed a lot and everyone paid attention to me, so it was perfect. In all seriousness, it was actually really nice to be surrounded by all the people who love and care about me during one of those beginning-of-the-end/start-of-something-new/quarter-life crisis moments and I’m really happy with the way the weekend turned out.
- A visit from best friends. Just over a month after graduation, two of my best friends from school came back for a visit. Even though we had just left each other, it’s a really stark contrast between seeing people every day for essentially four years, and just talking to them on the phone. Luckily, we had a bit of practice because we were all so busy junior and senior year we saw each other less frequently, but still. They were overdue for a visit and I’m glad I got to see them just before I made the move to Blacksburg.
- Elsie’s wedding. Elsie is the first of the people in my age group getting married to whom I’ve been close enough to attend the celebration, which kind of expanded across the month of June, with her bridal shower, traditional engagement ceremony, and her wedding ceremony. Everything was absolutely beautiful, and definitely unique, and I’m so grateful to have been a part of it all.
- Research for SRCD. Though my program doesn’t actually start until August, I have been working with my advisor this summer on a poster that I will present at a conference in April. I’ve already learned a lot about the research process at the graduate level, with a lot of guidance from my advisor and another grad student, but I also felt really well prepared with the work I had done with Dr. Kolak during my time at CofC, so that was a good feeling. It’s a nice intermediary step between undergraduate and graduate work, and a doubly good experience because we have actually found some concrete results, so I’ll have good data to share at the conference!
- Technically didn’t happen until two days after my birthday, but Christina and I have started moving into our new apartment! We are very excited to have a freshly painted and newly carpeted condo for the next few years, and I’m having a lot of fun designing my room and making it feel like home.
- In the next month, I will have orientation, go to a Train concert with my aunt, and start classes and paid research for my program. I’m going to be really busy for the next few months (and really five years!) but there’s a lot to look forward to, too. In October, I think I might get to follow along as my advisor and fellow grad students present research at a conference in Seattle, I’m visiting my best friend while she’s on a Fulbright in Germany over Thanksgiving week, and then I’ll present my own research at a conference at SRCD in April!